Sometimes , there are things we just can't communicate with the older generation . Especially to parents . It's like they're from earth , and we're from mars .
no matter how close the age gap is towards your parents and you , there is still gonna be a communication difficulty in some topics .
Teenagers nowadays , are almost all either depressed , self harming , starving themselves , hate themselves , have low self esteem ( i have the same problems ) , wishing that they're never born , and there really isn't any positive thoughts for them , and sadly , this type of teenagers are growing , in a speed of light .
So i have low self esteem , and it's really serious . If i could , i would ripe my face off literally , i would go to plastic surgery if my parents allow and i have the money . Don't tell me what "you shouldn't because your parents give you this face" , "you're already pretty enough" , "Do not care about what others say about you" , Once again , let me just say , i do not care what other says about me , my low self esteem is created by my own mindset . looking at people around , friends , strangers , they're all really pretty , have nice hair , and body figure , and when i look in the mirror , all i see is a face full of flaws . I have never once really look in the mirror and think that i'm beautiful . Never .
And when i told my mum about it , she said that i'm not mature enough , well maybe i'm really not mature enough , i'm still growing up , you can't really expect a girl who is turning 19 to be as mature as a 39 years old right ? I know , how mature you are isn't related to how old you really are , but you can't really expect every 19 years old girl to be really matured . But honestly , the problem isn't about maturity , it's about what's happening inside , in my mind . It's like having a demons inside you , pushing all your confident down and drowning it , and when you push the demon down , it didn't drown , it ended up swimming instead . It's like a living hell , only that you're the prisoner and the police who is in charge of the prison .
There are things where it's the problem about what's happening inside your mind , and not about how mature someone is . But for parents , it's like as long as you grow up , it would all be gone . And we all know , it don't go this easily . It wouldn't let us go so easily.
Generation gap will always be there , different generation have different thinking , and how the society actually picture someone as " beautiful" .
This post is about parents , and the front part is kind of about ranting , but there are things good about them too ,
They take care of our school fees ,
Make sure we have a place to live in ,
Think of our safety when we're outside ,
They may be naggy at times , but they mean well .
They may be really unreasonable , but all they are hoping is their children to be able to be safe ,
Singapore is getting more and more dangerous , slashing , people getting missing mysteriously , a doll that is really creepy , people committing suicide , corpse being found ?! Now just WTF is going on . Where has the peaceful Singapore go ?
And some committed suicide due to the stress from education , education are important , but why must we stress students out into the point where they think that if they fail , dying is the only way ?
Parents , adult , they all might have stuffs we can't communicate with them , and every time we do , there bounds to be a big fight . especially when it come to education . And for some , opening to them about that they're Gays / lesbians / bisexual / transgender are the main problems . And about that , I just hope that the people around them would accept them for who they are , there's nothing wrong with it actually , i actually do hope that Singapore or rather the whole world would make same sex marriage legal .
but yeah , love your parents , because without them , you wouldn't be here
thanks for reading :)